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Evilina
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and you think your life is weird?

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So most everyone here knows I am engaged and I sort of rescued my fiance from a bad physical and emotional relationship. Her ex harassed her on a daily basis and would randomly show up at her work along with his bff. Next think we know the bff starts stalking my fiance declaring his undying love for her, he actually caught her at a walgreens in the parking lot one day and hit her and tried to force her into his car. So my fiance calls a cop friend who grabbed a few cop buddies and found the guy, they then proceed to throw him in the trunk, took him to the country, broke his phone, impounded his car and beat the crap out of him.

A month goes by and all is peaceful cause we find out the bff is in jail for dwi, but soon all hell breaks loose, my fiance ex falls off some scaffolding at work and fractures his skull, the bff gets out of jail and starts the stalking once more.

A few weeks ago when the ex was in the hospital my fiance went to see him and found out he was in a coma which lasted a week and when he came out of it he didnt remember her breaking up with him, in fact he has lost 6 months of memory. The guy has no equilibrium, he can barely walk, and he needs assistance doing the simplest tast such as using the restroom, he also vomits every time he rides in a car.

Now I could care less about this douchebag but years ago my fiance had cancer and this guy apparently took great care of her for two years and once she was better he started being an assclown.

Now my fiance feels a responsibiity to take care of him and has agreed to move back in with him in order to take care of him, she will be paid well by the guys mom but it doesnt change how awkward the situtation is.

You know I ain't lying, wtf can make this kind of shit up. I could make millions off this screwed up story I call life.
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Man that's nothing. Yesterday I had to get off of the couch...
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Re: and you think your life is weird?

Post by Lamgwin »

Evilina wrote: So my fiance calls a cop friend who grabbed a few cop buddies and found the guy, they then proceed to throw him in the trunk, took him to the country, broke his phone, impounded his car and beat the crap out of him.
lol, hurray police brutality. If your fiance told the coppers to do that then she should help him out.
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Post by Jigsaw »

u should of put a bathtube in the woods beat him over the head and stick him in the bathtube with a special liquid a poof there is no more this guy. if you wan to know this liquid give me message :P. and no i havent done this before *wink*
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Yeah I didn't agree with the cops doing what they did, I wanted them to get the surveillance video from walgreens and use that as evidence of assault and attempted kidnapping, btw it was the friend of her ex that was beat up and not the ex. The ex sustained his injuries from falling off the scaffolding at work.

and wtf is a bathtube?
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u dont know what a bath tub is? i missed spelled everyone knows i cant spell. :P
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Post by Chase »

..And you're letting her move in with that psyco?? Even if he doesn't remember it, he is still obviously off kilter. If anything suggest she pass his mother some money to get someone to take care of him. Her moving in with his is anything but good, for you or for her.
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Post by Heritage »

sounds like a bunch of craziness. if it was me, id be saying giddy on out lol and i would find me another girl
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Post by Heritage »

sounds like a bunch of craziness. if it was me, id be saying giddy on out lol and i would find me another girl
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Post by Gargul »

repettion Heritage :)

Evilina, I thought you were a girl :p


But asides that,that is good of her. One problem: What happens when he is better ? Will she just say "you are better now, ok, bye bye " or will she stay there ? I don't think she'll stay there, since she is your fianc├®, but it is up to you to draw a line somewhere, moving in with him because he can't take care of himself, and so as not to hurt his mind, is she kissing him playing along ? or just showing her presence there ?

It is your call, what can you put up with? After taking care of him for long enough for him to get better, knowing girls, she'll be attached to him somewhat. If she just sais, ok, I did my job, now bye, then won't that kind of beat the whole point of playing along ?


It is to you to draw the line, and argue if you need to, but you're doing it in her best interrest as well. Listen to what she has to say, then just insist on what you feel is right. You won't go wrong that way :)

I don't know her though, so I am not well situated to talk.


ANd yeah, cray story.

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p.s., what is bff ? body guard ? heh
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Gargul wrote:p.s., what is bff ? body guard ? heh
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QMONEY
RORAN
SHEPARD

MOST WANTED DARKFRIENDS:
ROBBY
KATHRYN
CHASE MARAVIN

NOT SURE IF DARKFRIEND:
KYRANA
BUBONIC
CYRINDE

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