I understand completely what you mean. I don't have an anger management problem, maybe a sarcastic management problem, but I understand completely.
Anything that is semi-time consuming but engaging and offers release of any emotions like PK is a great thing for anyone out there.
I can relate to you Trin with your problem of "wooping arse" with the new system and all the new changes. I've lost so many abs vs abs fights because I can't land a bash it's not even funny
(16 str of doom). Well actually it is.
I think alot of the new changes are absolutely wonderful, like missing bashes on absers for instance, but I can understand how much it sucks to get completely owned by mere circumstance of the new system.
I just think the new system is a little too hardcore for my taste, and then along with that it is more time consuming. That just doesn't fit my own personal enjoyment to the same potential with the previous kinslayers.
And to add to that, the playerbase is even smaller(and I think it was still smaller last year than it was in Tulon ending days) so there's not as many people to meet, there's not as many players to kill/save/help.
I myself have not even played my characters in 2 weeks, as at this current point in time I can't motivate myself to play a character that I deem a waste of time and not very fun.
Thus, I consort to doing other things: I play guitar even more, I'm hanging with the buds all the time, and then I'm even playing stupid video console games at my friends house and working still.
All I can offer you Trin, is that I'm sure kinslayer will improve and be more fun again, Galnor and Ravir and them folks keep saying they have some treats for us, and they'll come one of these days.
All I can say, is just hop in once in a while, try to find something else to do out there for the time being, and then come back and enjoy what's added and offered then.
At least that's what I plan on doing.